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Not Yet: When Interpretation Becomes Intrusion in Adolescent Therapy
Not every interpretation lands. Some come too soon. Learn how to recognise when a symbol isn’t ready—and why that matters in OCD work.
marcuslewton
Apr 102 min read
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Stop Focusing on the Compulsion
Stop cataloguing rituals. Start listening for what breaks if they don’t happen. Treat the structure, not just the symptom.
marcuslewton
Apr 82 min read
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How to Tell If Your Child Is Symbolising or Just Repeating
Is your child expressing something—or just repeating it? Learn how to tell if a ritual is symbolising, or if it’s stuck in survival mode.
marcuslewton
Apr 82 min read
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Understanding Symbolic Breakdown in Adolescent Obsessionality
When a young person stops symbolising, rituals remain—but meaning drains out. Symbolic collapse is quiet, but devastating. (Lecture 2).
marcuslewton
Apr 85 min read
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Why Is My Child Doing This?
Sometimes a ritual isn’t just a habit — it’s a child’s way of saying, “I’m sorry,” or “I love you,” when words feel impossible.
marcuslewton
Apr 52 min read
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How Can I Help If I’m Not Supposed to Reassure?
Reassurance feels kind—but can keep OCD stuck. Learn how to support your child without feeding the fear, and what to say…
marcuslewton
Apr 42 min read
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It’s Not Who They Are: Making Sense of Taboo Thoughts in Adolescents
Taboo thoughts in teens aren’t signs of danger. They reflect inner conflict during adolescence—when new impulses outpace understanding.
marcuslewton
Mar 302 min read
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“ How Can They Be Fine One Minute and Lost the Next?”
When your child swings from calm to crisis, it’s not your failure. It’s the shape of the struggle. Here’s how to understand it.
marcuslewton
Mar 292 min read
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“Not Every Child Can ‘Just Do ERP’": A Conversation About Intrusive Thoughts, Support, and What Needs to Change”
ERP isn't for everyone. This conversation explores readiness, deeper work, and what it means to never give up on a young person.
marcuslewton
Mar 295 min read
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“What Should I Say?” When Reassurance Doesn’t Work
When reassurance doesn’t work, it’s not because you’re doing it wrong. Sometimes, it’s not about answers—it’s about staying close.
marcuslewton
Mar 291 min read
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The House with a Locked Door: A Parent’s First Glimpse into OCD
A parent’s first glimpse of OCD isn’t always a diagnosis—it’s the sense that their child is there, but behind a door they can’t yet open.
marcuslewton
Mar 292 min read
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“Why Can’t They Just Stop?” Understanding the Hidden Logic Behind Intrusive Thoughts
Intrusive thoughts aren’t nonsense—they’re protection. This post helps parents understand the hidden logic behind loops, rituals, and fear.
marcuslewton
Mar 292 min read
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"What Should I Say?” Supporting Your Child Through Unwanted Intrusive Thoughts
When your child shares a scary thought, they don’t need fixing—they need presence. Learn how to support without reassuring away the meaning.
marcuslewton
Mar 282 min read
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“But I Can’t Stop Thinking It”: Why Intrusive Thoughts Repeat and Won’t Let Go
Intrusive thoughts stick because they protect against deep emotional fears. This post explores why loops form and how we can begin to loose.
marcuslewton
Mar 282 min read
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